{"id":576,"date":"2019-01-02T20:53:40","date_gmt":"2019-01-02T20:53:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.allaboutyoucounselling.co.uk\/?p=576"},"modified":"2024-08-23T10:14:58","modified_gmt":"2024-08-23T10:14:58","slug":"why-do-i-keep-finding-myself-in-abusive-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.allaboutyoucounselling.co.uk\/wp\/why-do-i-keep-finding-myself-in-abusive-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do I keep finding myself in abusive relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-white-background-color has-background is-vertical is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-4b2eccd6 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex has-light-background has-sm-padding-top has-sm-padding-bottom has-sm-padding-left has-sm-padding-right\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group rounded-group has-white-background-color has-background has-light-background has-sm-padding-top has-sm-padding-bottom has-sm-padding-left has-sm-padding-right\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p>Have you ever wondered why you keep ending up with abusive, narcissistic type people?<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<p>Clients have often described how they feel like they attract the wrong people or they must have a sign on them that attracts narcissistic people.  Do you rack your brains trying to find out what it is about you that attracts such people? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Well one possible  answer is that you might be an empath.  <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Empaths and narcissists attract each other and fit together like hand and glove.  Even though it is an uncomfortable, abusive  and unhappy experience for you, you still somehow keep ending up still end in these relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abdul Saad, a psychologist from Australia has his own understanding on this phenomenon.  Below is a link to his talk about the empath in this dynamic and in particular focussing on the Empaths inner beliefs that keep them stuck. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=VwZ4OR_mioI&#038;t=6s\">Click here<\/a> to view the video on YouTube.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"The unconscious belief the empath must face to break free of the narcissist\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/VwZ4OR_mioI?start=6&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wondered why you keep ending up with abusive, narcissistic type people? Clients have often described how they feel like they attract the wrong people or they must have a sign on them that attracts narcissistic people. Do you rack your brains trying to find out what it is about you that attracts &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":{"2":"type-post","7":"entry"},"aioseo_notices":[],"acf":[],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"cover":false,"landscape-sm":false,"landscape-md":false,"landscape-lg":false,"tiny":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Kim Hamilton","author_link":"https:\/\/www.allaboutyoucounselling.co.uk\/wp\/author\/kimhamilton\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Have you ever wondered why you keep ending up with abusive, narcissistic type people? 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